{"id":1725,"date":"2025-06-16T13:38:47","date_gmt":"2025-06-16T10:38:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/?p=1725"},"modified":"2025-06-16T13:38:47","modified_gmt":"2025-06-16T10:38:47","slug":"an-unexpected-benefit-if-you-can-always-calmly-explain-your-opinion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/an-unexpected-benefit-if-you-can-always-calmly-explain-your-opinion\/","title":{"rendered":"An unexpected BENEFIT if you can always calmly explain your opinion"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Of course, staying calm is primarily good for your own mental health, but things need to get done by deadlines, there is always some timely pressure.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Speed and calmness seem like opposites, but in reality, they are mutually supportive states.<\/strong> If you rush nervously, you make mistakes, and the entire process takes longer to complete.<br \/>\nRushing leads to overthinking, which in turn makes you even more nervous.<br \/>\nWhen you are nervous, there is no clarity, excessive emotions steal your time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>There is a saying, &#8220;Morning is wiser than evening,&#8221; meaning, have a good night sleep and then you will see the situation in a completely new light. A calm state is always important, especially in rapidly evolving situations, as the ultimate goal must not be lost from sight.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If it seems that things are not moving fast enough in the desired direction, there may be a temptation to rush ahead, yell at others, command them, meaning you lose your self-control. The latter might be done on the assumption that you are <strong>100%<\/strong> sure that you are right. Still<strong>, do you know anyone who is 100% right out of 100 times? I don&#8217;t.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>What happens if you yell at others, command them, but in this particular instance, you were not right?<\/strong> You lose the respect of others!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you are a leader and your patience breaks because others did something, or if you personally felt fear or emotional pain for a moment, or simply had a bad night&#8217;s sleep, and in that moment you were <strong>not<\/strong> right, then your subordinates will feel that you abused your power.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Making others feel bad does not make them TRULY cooperate\u2014quite the opposite.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>To prevent such a situation, one option is to always double-check your claims multiple times, but this requires a lot of time and energy, and even leaders are allowed to make mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But here comes the UNEXPECTED BENEFIT INTO PLAY IF YOU ALWAYS STAY CALM!<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you remain calm and your claim was incorrect, it is very easy to back down, admit your mistake, and you will not lose respect in the eyes of others!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even more so, you will be valued even more for being calm, flexible, and acknowledging your mistakes. You will be a person with whom people naturally want to collaborate.<br \/>\nRespect for you will grow!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>We get into trouble not because of what we do not know, but because of what we think we definitely know but which is actually incorrect.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In any situation, whether professional or personal\u2014and especially in personal matters, because those involve the people closest to you\u2014if you stay calm, relationships remain trustworthy and respectful.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Reactivity and irritation are always internal pain<\/strong>, and a good idea is to focus on self-development rather than forcibly correcting others.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Feedback about life-changing hypnotherapy:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/coachkatipaeorg\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/coachkatipaeorg<\/a><\/p>\n<p>More about hypnotherapy:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/hypnotherapy\/\">https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/hypnotherapy\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-1726 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/others-opinion-230x300.png\" alt=\"Emotional stability creates peace and clarity\" width=\"258\" height=\"337\" srcset=\"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/others-opinion-230x300.png 230w, https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/others-opinion-384x500.png 384w, https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/others-opinion.png 447w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 258px) 100vw, 258px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Of course, staying calm is primarily good for your own mental health, but things need to get done by deadlines, there is always some timely pressure. &nbsp; Speed and calmness seem like opposites, but in reality, they are mutually supportive states. If you rush nervously, you make mistakes, and the entire process takes longer to&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\" [&hellip;]\"><a href=\"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/an-unexpected-benefit-if-you-can-always-calmly-explain-your-opinion\/\">Read More<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1726,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"_wp_convertkit_post_meta":{"form":"-1","landing_page":"0","tag":"0","restrict_content":"0"},"footnotes":""},"categories":[77,68,82,80],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1725","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-burnout","category-confidence","category-leadership-2","category-overthinking"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1725","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1725"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1725\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1734,"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1725\/revisions\/1734"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1726"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1725"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1725"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katipaeorg.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1725"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}